A reader recently asked me to give some tips for beating insomnia, so I thought I’d repost this piece.
A few years ago, I experienced a terrible case of insomnia. I took the sleeping drug Lunesta, which afforded me a few wonderful nights’ sleep, until I realized it substantially increased my anxiety during the day. Within a week on the drug, I became addicted, experiencing more and more withdrawal (anxiety) symptoms. Other sleep aids had the same effect, even over-the counter-medications like Benadryl. So I was forced to figure out how to get my sleep back on track naturally.
I asked anyone I knew who had ever suffered from sleep problems for tips on catching some zzzs, and spent lots of time researching ways to get some shut-eye without taking drugs. Although it felt like I was the only one awake at night, I certainly wasn’t alone. According to the Center for Disease Control, more than one-quarter of the U.S. population occasionally does not get enough sleep, while nearly 10 percent experience chronic insomnia. Sleep problems are associated with a number of chronic illnesses, and, according to the CDC, are a real threat to our nation’s health.
The last few months I have been battling the beast of insomnia again so I’m back to compiling techniques I’ve learned from other folks lying awake at night. Here are some natural remedies that have allowed them to get a better night’s sleep.
1. Herbal Teas
Many of my friends who suffer from sleep problems have benefitted from drinking different kinds of herbal teas an hour or two before they go to bed at night. You can make your own from dried herbs—put a teaspoon of your mix into a tea ball or tea bag and add to hot water—or try some trusted boxes. You want to include or look for ingredients such as lavender, valerian, chamomile, passionflower, lemon balm, ashwagandha, holy basil, rosemary leaf, and dill seed. Some popular brands of teas include Sleepytime, Yogi Tea (I like their Stress Relief Honey Lavender tea and their Calming tea) and Traditional Medicinals (especially their Organic Nighty Night tea and Cup of Calm tea). NOTE: Please ask your psychiatrist about herbs as some conflict with medicines.
2. Essential Oils
For nearly 6,000 years essential oils have been used for therapeutic purposes—sleep issues included. Several people in my online depression community use lavender oil to help them relax before bed and help them to sleep. They either apply a few drops to their temples before going to bed at night or spray a lavender mist on their pillow. I have used lavender oil for about a year now and I do think it’s helpful. Other calming essential oils include valerian, vetiver, roman chamomile, and marjoram.
3. Meditation and Relaxation Tapes
A few years ago when my daughter couldn’t sleep, we would listen to calming meditations by Lori Lite designed for children. They were very effective in helping her to relax her body and mind enough to drift off to sleep. There are all kinds of sleep meditations and apps on the market today. Mashable published a good list awhile back. Personally, I like the meditations by Jon Kabat-Zinn, founding director of the Stress Reduction Clinic and the Center for Mindfulness and Medicine. His voice sooths me more than any other meditation guide. A friend of mine swears by the meditations found on the free app CALM. Of course you don’t need a guide to meditate. Sometimes just paying attention to your breath on your own—concentrating on your belly as it rises with each in-breath and lowers with each outbreath–or concentrating on a bodily sensation is a great way of calming yourself down.
4. Soothing Music and White Noise
Many of the apps listed above come with soothing music and white noise. Some nights I’m not up for listening to instructions on how to relax each of my muscles or reminders to pay attention to my breath. I simply visualize myself lying by the ocean, listening to the waves on the shore, or I concentrate on my breath as I listen to nature sounds. Therefore, I have a few apps and sound tracks of just ocean waves and rain and water streams, which are helpful to unwind. Other people I know like to listen to soothing music, instrumental melodies, or simple white noise.
5. Cooler Temperatures
According to California-based clinical psychologist Arlene K. Unger, Ph.D., becoming overly heated is a common cause of sleeplessness. As one of her many helpful hints in her book Sleep: 50 Mindfulness and Relaxation Exercises for a Restful Night, she advises wearing lighter pajamas, keeping the window slightly open, and possibly ditching the heavy covers. I know people who sleep much better with a fan. The breeze and white noise creates a conducive sleeping environment.
6. Melatonin and Other Natural Supplements
There are several natural supplements that can help relax the nervous system and assist sleep. The most common are melatonin, which regulates the sleep-wake cycle, and the amino acid l-theanine, typically found in teas. Valerian, GABA, kava, and 5 HTP are others. I have found the combination of magnesium and calcium to be effective at times. Some natural sleep aids that combine various supplements include Neuroscience’s Kavinance Ultra PM, Genestra’s Calm-Gen, and Nature Made’s Sleep supplement. Again, consult with your psychiatrist on supplements.
7. Epsom Salt Baths
Taking an Epsom salt bath in the evening has been one of the more effective pieces of my sleep hygiene routine. Epsom salts are a mineral compound containing magnesium, sulfur, and oxygen. When used in a warm bath, they allow magnesium to be easily absorbed into the skin, which promotes a feeling of calm and relaxation. According to a 2012 study in the journal Neuropharmacology, magnesium deficiencies induce anxiety, which is why the mineral is known as the original chill pill. I simply add two cups of the lavender-scented Epsom salt with added potassium and zinc to my bath water. I turn off the bathroom lights and use a lavender candle.
8. Prayer Beads and Mantras
You need not be a devout Catholic to use prayer beads. They are employed in all of the world’s religions as part of meditative practices. The process of repeating a prayer or mantra over and over again while thumbing the beads can be very relaxing and soothing. Personally, I have slept with a rosary since I first experienced insomnia two years ago. The prayer beads have become my safety item, much like a child’s blankie, and give me comfort in the middle of the night when I wake.
Any kind of yoga primes the parasympathetic system and promotes relaxation, taming the stress responses that cause insomnia. I have found hot yoga to be especially beneficial for sleep because, in addition to doing the healing postures, your sweating releases stored toxins that is very cleansing. Certain postures like these 19 listed in Yoga Journal are especially helpful for sleep. Doing them in the evening or even when you wake at night, can sooth your central nervous system. Practicing Savasana (Corpse Pose), in particular, before sleeping can promote deep rest according to yoga instructors I know. There are also some apps you can download like Yoga for Insomnia that will help guide you through the postures.
10. Audiotapes and Free Lectures
Reading in periods of sleeplessness helps many folks I know doze off into slumber. As a highly sensitive person, the light wakes me up. According to some Harvard research, all light-emitting ebooks and screens negatively affect our sleep, even the Kindle. Therefore, I prefer to listen to audiotapes. Lately, I’ve been listening to the book Wherever You Go There You Are by Jon Kabat-Zinn. It is a collection of small chapters about mindfulness that is effective at calming me down. Since audiobooks can be experience, you might consider downloading university lectures, which are free content, from iTunes U, the section of Apple’s iTunes music store devoted to higher education.
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Originally published on Sanity Break.
There are some excellent sleep meditations and hypnosis on YouTube including ones by Jon Kabat Zinn and Michael Seeley and they are free.
What’s the difference between Project Beyond Blue and Group Beyond Blue? I joined GBB a while ago. It had been so therapeutic! Thanks for spearheading this whole thing!! ??❤️
Group Beyond Blue is a Facebook group. Project Hope and Beyond is an online community that offers support too for people who were uncomfortable with Facebook. It has about 25,000 members, broken into different groups. A nice community!
hi Therese, I wanted to add to your list with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia. I am psychotherapist in the SF Bay area who struggled with chronic and severe insomnia for over 4 years. I used Ambien nightly for 2 of those years. I tried EVERYTHING to try and solve my insomnia (your entire list and them some! including acupuncture, CBD oil, and very expensive analytic therapy). I finally stumbled across Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia. After just a few weeks my sleep had improved and I was off the Ambien. I now sleep like a champ. Back to my pre-insomnia quantity and quality of restful nightly sleep! I’m so inspired by this work, I’ve converted part of my clinical practice to helping other people struggling with insomnia using
Excellent article!! Thanks for sharing this information with us.
Therese, have you tried neurofeedback for insomnia? It’s very effective. I also use a new protocol called Safe and Sound by Stephen Porges and my own movement meditation system called ROMChi Energy Meditation… With some diet tips, for neural health.
I’d love to have you try out one of my programs if you’d be interested!
Having experienced depression myself, I can say my heart is with you. Much Love.
Well, young lady…….. Haven’t heard from you for a while…
Busy? Yeah, yeah, that’s what they always say. (Sigh)
Vacation? Without us?!!!!!!!!
Gotta cold? Should of said something, cause I ate that chicken soup!!
Oh, oh, it’s all about the back-to-school thing, huh? Like, you’ve never heard of Amazon?
😉 😉 😉
I think it must be helpful for us. Thanks for sharing your information.on how we can Beat Insomnia Naturally.
Seems like the best way to get tired during the evening is to apply several methods. I’ve also found that skipping a night makes me sleep better at least a week after that.
Thanks for sharing excellent information with us i really like to read this article , i was facing such challenges since last two years when i was working in night shift and now i am recover………… thanks